Use it or lose it applies to many things but particularly to the mind. Physical inactivity and lack of mental stimulation can lead to cognitive decline. Those who manage to stay ‘young’ even as they enter their elder years have kept their minds and bodies active throughout their lives.
Cognitive decline is not inevitable as we age unless it is a result of poor health. Mental alertness will continue as we age if we remain physically and mentally active. Cardiovascular exercises act as a fuel for the brain. Activities such as walking, line dancing, rope jumping, swimming, treadmills, bicycles (stationary or otherwise), and even yoga will increase the blood flow which allows oxygen to reach the brain. This, combined with a good diet, not smoking and drinking moderately will reduce the risk of heart disease and strokes, etc.
According to researchers at the Cleveland Clinic Foundation, thinking through the stages of a particular exercise, when unable to exercise, can actually strengthen a muscle. Athletes use this technique but know also that it does not replace actual exercise.
I found this same technique worked when I first learned to type; whenever I saw a sign, or read a book I mentally typed the words and strongly believe this helped to increase my typing speed. I have also used this technique to assist me when sketching; I trace every outline of what I wish to draw with my eye and when it comes time to place pencil to paper, it is much easier to do the sketch because the image is more firmly etched upon my brain.
Stimulating our brains throughout our lives will help to keep us younger. We can do this in many ways, often when we are doing other things, i.e.: if we are right-handed, we can use our left hand for activities such as brushing our hair, our teeth and eating or even for simple things like reaching for the telephone, closing the blinds or using our computer mouse. Other ways of keeping our brains active are to do things with our eyes closed, i.e.: flossing our teeth, getting dressed, putting on socks or tying our shoelaces.
We can increase our mental capabilities by learning a new language, working with modeling clay, reading, playing a game of scrabble, working on crossword puzzles, doing Suduko or playing other games such as Bridge or Hearts. Learning should be continuous throughout our whole
lives. It is also important to avoid monotony, routine, dissatisfaction and discontentment at any age. As we get older, boredom will set in if we don’t maintain interests and hobbies, close connections with friends and family or stay connected with the business of living. Boredom will lead to discontentment and unhappiness. If substance abuse and isolation are the next steps following boredom, aging and poor health can’t be far behind.
My belief is that to retain the feeling of youth, we must wake up each and every morning as if the sun was shining and the birds were singing and tell ourselves that it’s good to be alive. And the first question we should ask ourselves is, ‘What shall I do with my life today?’ No day should be wasted.
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Aging - Keeping Our Brains Healthy
Studies have shown that those who age successfully and who remain mentally alert well into their elder years share certain characteristics. It is a chosen lifestyle that will pay off by extending their enjoyment of life as they age.
One of the most important of these characteristics is being positive and feeling good about ourselves. Part of being positive is looking at our glass as being half full instead of half empty. And for this reason, it is important to think about how we view ourselves and how we perceive the world around us. It is also necessary to learn to adapt to life’s many challenges and by doing so, we will feel we have control over our lives. By being in control of life, it will be easier to continue, as we age, to sustain a social network with supportive relationships.
Those who are able to maintain this type of a lifestyle throughout their lives, studies show, seem to live longer, more actively and with less mental decline. Also because they have remained more active during their lives, they are often more pain-free and without the physical limitations that their counterparts who have become sedentary may experience. By remaining active, they will also likely continue to maintain friends and family relationships, travel, enjoy social activities in their communities, join clubs, and take courses thus keeping themselves more mentally alert. Some studies indicate that it is important to continue to learn new things and to pursue activities that are intellectually stimulating in order to challenge our brains, particularly as we age.
Memory difficulties are most often associated with aging. It is important to remember that tension and stress are associated with memory problems and so it is necessary to attempt to avoid stress as much as possible in our lives. Memory issues can be lessened also if we pay attention to new things, listen when we are spoken to, focus on what is important, and to verbalize and visualize.
By continuing to be active and involved with life most elders, with good health, perseverance, and admittedly some good luck should be able to remain mentally alert their whole lives.
One of the most important of these characteristics is being positive and feeling good about ourselves. Part of being positive is looking at our glass as being half full instead of half empty. And for this reason, it is important to think about how we view ourselves and how we perceive the world around us. It is also necessary to learn to adapt to life’s many challenges and by doing so, we will feel we have control over our lives. By being in control of life, it will be easier to continue, as we age, to sustain a social network with supportive relationships.
Those who are able to maintain this type of a lifestyle throughout their lives, studies show, seem to live longer, more actively and with less mental decline. Also because they have remained more active during their lives, they are often more pain-free and without the physical limitations that their counterparts who have become sedentary may experience. By remaining active, they will also likely continue to maintain friends and family relationships, travel, enjoy social activities in their communities, join clubs, and take courses thus keeping themselves more mentally alert. Some studies indicate that it is important to continue to learn new things and to pursue activities that are intellectually stimulating in order to challenge our brains, particularly as we age.
Memory difficulties are most often associated with aging. It is important to remember that tension and stress are associated with memory problems and so it is necessary to attempt to avoid stress as much as possible in our lives. Memory issues can be lessened also if we pay attention to new things, listen when we are spoken to, focus on what is important, and to verbalize and visualize.
By continuing to be active and involved with life most elders, with good health, perseverance, and admittedly some good luck should be able to remain mentally alert their whole lives.
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Aging - The Brain and Diet
Beginning in our sixties and seventies, there will be changes in our brains. These changes are a result of many things but they are particularly affected by our diets. When we were children, we had it drummed into our heads to ‘eat our fruit and vegetables’. It wasn’t only true then but continues to be important as we get older.
Our brains, like anything else, will become ‘rusty’ if we do not maintain it. One way to avoid the ‘rusty’ effect is to include a lot of antioxidant foods in our diet. Many of the antioxidant foods include those that are colorful such as: broccoli, spinach, brussel sprouts, beets, red peppers, carrots and yams. But the list also includes vegetables such as cauliflower, eggplant, alphalpha sprouts and corn which are lighter in color.
Fruits that are high in antioxidants include: blueberries, cranberries, blackberries, strawberries, raspberries, plums and oranges as well as dried fruit such as prunes, raisins and apricots. Nuts such as almonds and walnuts are also good antioxidants.
Foods that are high in Omega-3’s, such as fish, also help protect our brains from aging. Suggested fish are mackerel, herring, sardines, salmon, tuna and any white fish.
Meals should be balanced with breakfast being one of the most important meals of the day. It is important to eat low fat foods and not over indulge. Alcohol should only be taken in moderation because it restricts the blood flow to the brain, as does smoking. It is also believed that smoking in later life can promote mental decline. Coffee also should be taken in moderation.
A diet that is healthy for the brain is also good for the heart. And if followed, a diet such as the above will also help decrease the chances of obesity. Maintaining the health of our brain should not start when we first notice deterioration; it should begin when we are young and be continued throughout our lives.
Our brains, like anything else, will become ‘rusty’ if we do not maintain it. One way to avoid the ‘rusty’ effect is to include a lot of antioxidant foods in our diet. Many of the antioxidant foods include those that are colorful such as: broccoli, spinach, brussel sprouts, beets, red peppers, carrots and yams. But the list also includes vegetables such as cauliflower, eggplant, alphalpha sprouts and corn which are lighter in color.
Fruits that are high in antioxidants include: blueberries, cranberries, blackberries, strawberries, raspberries, plums and oranges as well as dried fruit such as prunes, raisins and apricots. Nuts such as almonds and walnuts are also good antioxidants.
Foods that are high in Omega-3’s, such as fish, also help protect our brains from aging. Suggested fish are mackerel, herring, sardines, salmon, tuna and any white fish.
Meals should be balanced with breakfast being one of the most important meals of the day. It is important to eat low fat foods and not over indulge. Alcohol should only be taken in moderation because it restricts the blood flow to the brain, as does smoking. It is also believed that smoking in later life can promote mental decline. Coffee also should be taken in moderation.
A diet that is healthy for the brain is also good for the heart. And if followed, a diet such as the above will also help decrease the chances of obesity. Maintaining the health of our brain should not start when we first notice deterioration; it should begin when we are young and be continued throughout our lives.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Aging - Keeping A Good Attitude As We Age
How we think depends on how old we feel. Do we think we are old at fifty years? If so, then we will probably feel old too. During my life I have waged a war against aging; not by denying that I am aging but by the age I think ‘old’ is. ‘Old’ has always been determined in my thoughts as being at least 15 to 20 years older than I ever am at the time. And I have never said I’m too old for anything. Once you say you are too old, you will be.
In general I believe it is important to continue to try new things as we age even though I may not bungee jump or ride the Hollywood Tower of Terror at Disneyland. But I didn’t do those things when I was twenty either. I also believe it is important as we age to spend time with people who are younger than ourselves; their younger attitudes will make us feel upbeat and younger than if we surround ourselves only with those who are older.
Studies show that psychosocial factors as well as genes and general health will help to determine how we age. By being positive, happy, optimistic and making plans for the future will determine the image we have of ourselves and our feelings of ‘being old’. (I recently heard about a seventy-five year old man who was building himself a new house.)
Many times throughout my life I have thought, ‘I’m just starting my life’ which is similar to the well-known saying, ‘it’s the first day of the rest of my life’. With this attitude, the next thought must surely be, ‘how much can I accomplish in the rest of my life?’ The answer is, ‘a lot’. I believe that as we age it is important to grow in our thoughts, to continue to add to our own lives as well as to others; and to continually strive towards remaining independent by being involved in life in whatever capacity our bodies allow us to be. “I can” should, no matter our age, be important words in our vocabularies.
It is important also, I believe to be confident in our abilities and our roles in life. What is our role in life? Are we involved grandparents, volunteers for a worthy organization, or social butterflies? As long as we are happy in our roles and feel that our lives are full and we are accomplishing something, we will feel younger than if we were sitting uninvolved and with few social contacts.
I also believe that coping strategies have a large bearing on our health, as well as our aging process. There will be many changes in our lives, that we will have to adapt to and if we have good coping skills, will be easier to get through these challenges. (My mother is an example of not coping with changes. She moved into an assisted living home and didn’t adjust well; she was in and out of hospitals for several months even going so far as refusing to eat.)
So, think young, live young and you’ll feel young. Live life to its fullest – life is too short to feel old before you have to. You have to start when you’re young but remember that ‘young’ can be at any age.
In general I believe it is important to continue to try new things as we age even though I may not bungee jump or ride the Hollywood Tower of Terror at Disneyland. But I didn’t do those things when I was twenty either. I also believe it is important as we age to spend time with people who are younger than ourselves; their younger attitudes will make us feel upbeat and younger than if we surround ourselves only with those who are older.
Studies show that psychosocial factors as well as genes and general health will help to determine how we age. By being positive, happy, optimistic and making plans for the future will determine the image we have of ourselves and our feelings of ‘being old’. (I recently heard about a seventy-five year old man who was building himself a new house.)
Many times throughout my life I have thought, ‘I’m just starting my life’ which is similar to the well-known saying, ‘it’s the first day of the rest of my life’. With this attitude, the next thought must surely be, ‘how much can I accomplish in the rest of my life?’ The answer is, ‘a lot’. I believe that as we age it is important to grow in our thoughts, to continue to add to our own lives as well as to others; and to continually strive towards remaining independent by being involved in life in whatever capacity our bodies allow us to be. “I can” should, no matter our age, be important words in our vocabularies.
It is important also, I believe to be confident in our abilities and our roles in life. What is our role in life? Are we involved grandparents, volunteers for a worthy organization, or social butterflies? As long as we are happy in our roles and feel that our lives are full and we are accomplishing something, we will feel younger than if we were sitting uninvolved and with few social contacts.
I also believe that coping strategies have a large bearing on our health, as well as our aging process. There will be many changes in our lives, that we will have to adapt to and if we have good coping skills, will be easier to get through these challenges. (My mother is an example of not coping with changes. She moved into an assisted living home and didn’t adjust well; she was in and out of hospitals for several months even going so far as refusing to eat.)
So, think young, live young and you’ll feel young. Live life to its fullest – life is too short to feel old before you have to. You have to start when you’re young but remember that ‘young’ can be at any age.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Antiquated Laws
Is our world any crazier than it ever was? If we look at some of the old laws that are still in existence, but are not invoked, perhaps it isn’t after all.
Canada has old laws on their books that most of its citizens have never heard of and if challenged by either the citizens or the law courts have the potential for problems.
In Canada, it is illegal to pay for anything over 25 cents in pennies. What’s to be done with all the pennies? Perhaps it’s the pennies that should be outlawed.
Citizens cannot publicly remove bandages. If this law were ever invoked, many children would end up behind bars since they are notorious ‘bandage peelers’.
It is illegal to kill a sick person by frightening them. It would be difficult to determine how they were frightened and whether it was the frightening that killed them. Can ‘frightening’ be determined by autopsy?
It is also illegal to pretend to practice witchcraft. The supposition is that it is legal to practice witchcraft as long as you’re not pretending.
In Alberta, Canada, this outdated law has perhaps the most serious consequences if invoked, “if a person is released from prison, it is required that he/she be given a handgun with bullets and a horse so they can ride out of town.’
In Etobicoke, Ontario, a bylaw states that no more than 3.5 inches of water is allowed in a bathtub. If this law was taken seriously, the cost of officers would certainly increase and be a drain on our system.
In Cobourg, Ontario, it is required that if you have a water trough in your front yard, it must be filled by 5:00 a.m. It would probably be best to dispense with the water trough.
In Oshawa, Ontario, the city laws state that it is illegal to climb trees. This is not a biggie unless the trees are.
In Ottawa, Ontario, it is illegal to eat ice-cream on Bank Street on a Sunday.
Toronto, Ontario laws state you are not allowed to drag a dead horse down Yonge Street on a Sunday. If tested, I’m sure most streets would have the same law enacted.
In Wawa, Ontario the law states you cannot paint a ladder as it will be slippery when wet.
In Nova Scotia, a person is not allowed to water his lawn when it is raining.
Canada has old laws on their books that most of its citizens have never heard of and if challenged by either the citizens or the law courts have the potential for problems.
In Canada, it is illegal to pay for anything over 25 cents in pennies. What’s to be done with all the pennies? Perhaps it’s the pennies that should be outlawed.
Citizens cannot publicly remove bandages. If this law were ever invoked, many children would end up behind bars since they are notorious ‘bandage peelers’.
It is illegal to kill a sick person by frightening them. It would be difficult to determine how they were frightened and whether it was the frightening that killed them. Can ‘frightening’ be determined by autopsy?
It is also illegal to pretend to practice witchcraft. The supposition is that it is legal to practice witchcraft as long as you’re not pretending.
In Alberta, Canada, this outdated law has perhaps the most serious consequences if invoked, “if a person is released from prison, it is required that he/she be given a handgun with bullets and a horse so they can ride out of town.’
In Etobicoke, Ontario, a bylaw states that no more than 3.5 inches of water is allowed in a bathtub. If this law was taken seriously, the cost of officers would certainly increase and be a drain on our system.
In Cobourg, Ontario, it is required that if you have a water trough in your front yard, it must be filled by 5:00 a.m. It would probably be best to dispense with the water trough.
In Oshawa, Ontario, the city laws state that it is illegal to climb trees. This is not a biggie unless the trees are.
In Ottawa, Ontario, it is illegal to eat ice-cream on Bank Street on a Sunday.
Toronto, Ontario laws state you are not allowed to drag a dead horse down Yonge Street on a Sunday. If tested, I’m sure most streets would have the same law enacted.
In Wawa, Ontario the law states you cannot paint a ladder as it will be slippery when wet.
In Nova Scotia, a person is not allowed to water his lawn when it is raining.
Sunday, August 30, 2009
Our 'Griswold's' Family Vacation
Our ‘Griswold’s family vacation’ started out like any other normal vacation with two grandparents and three grandchildren about to embark on a three week trip. Some might say, “Three grandchildren; are you crazy?” Well there’s crazy and then there’s crazy.
We drove four long, hot days with no air conditioning in our hottest weather. I know what you’re thinking. I thought so too but..... It took us one day to drive through Washington, one day through Oregon and two days through California. It was not until we had almost reached Palm Springs before a little voice asked, “Are we almost there yet?” The first leg of our trip was over and we were welcomed at our destination with cold drinks and a refreshingly cool swimming pool. We weren’t crazy.
We spent two days in Palm Springs and then drove to Anaheim for four lovely, hot, fun-filled days of walking around Disneyland fighting the crowds. Some again might say we were crazy but it all depends how you look at it. If you love Space Mountain or the Hollywood Tower, I think you’re crazy. I’m not one of them but I did get conned by one of my sons who joined us there into going on Thunder Mountain. I should have been suspicious because last time we were there he told me Space Mountain wasn’t a roller coaster ride; it was only a ‘roller coaster-type ride’ and I fell for it. Uhmm.
From there we returned to Palm Springs late in the evening. As we drove up to my brother’s place – tired, hot and sticky – my partner misjudged the outside overhang of our motorhome and knocked their mailbox over. The cement base lay in crumbling little pieces on the ground while the children and I carefully stepped over it. I won’t say crazy but my husband spent two days rebuilding the cement base to its ‘almost back to original state' while the children and I enjoyed the swimming pool.
After a four day rest from Disneyland, we decided to set off for Arizona in 48 degree weather with, like I mentioned, no air conditioner. But like troopers we persevered because we had promised the children a visit to the Grand Canyon. Through deserts and over mountains we travelled until finally we stopped near a small town, hoping to find a campsite. The funny or not so funny thing was that once we stopped, the motorhome wouldn’t start again. I laughed. Really what else was there to do?
“It’s our lucky day,” I declared.
“How so?” my partner asked grumpily.
“Well, we could’ve broken down in the middle of nowhere.”
“We are in the middle of nowhere,” one grandson pointed out.
“But it’s not as ‘nowhere’ as it could’ve been,” I told him logically. “We’re very, very close to a campsite and to a town if need be,” I pointed out. Now who was crazy?
However, we did make it to the Grand Canyon and what an awesome sight that was! There is nothing to compare to it. But while we were leaving our campsite the following morning my partner failed to notice a tree stump and tore the corner out of our motorhome. It was the corner that housed the secondary battery that the fridge ran on while we were driving. Well what the heck - warm drinks, melted freezies and canned meals are better than nothing. One can’t quibble about the little things.
Then we stopped at Bryce Canyon in Utah – another unbelievable sight and one we were glad we had not missed. But when we arrived at our campsite that night and hooked up our water supply, we ended up with water all over the bathroom floor – a loose connection and not the appropriate tools to fix it with. So we used pots and kettles to bring water into the motorhome. It was just like camping in the ‘good old days’ only better because we didn’t have to sleep on the ground.
From there we travelled to Nevada where we stopped at Virginia City. Another great place to visit and one I’d like to go back to again when our motorhome is in a little better shape. When we went to our campsite, I asked my partner if he would like me to direct him while he backed up.
“No,” he said, “it’ll be fine.”
I shouldn’t have listened. I should have risked life and limb and jumped out of our moving RV because within minutes he had ‘somehow’ attached himself to a metal fence post. That wasn’t too bad though. The problem was when he tried to pull away and the bumper and part of the back wall of the motorhome came away also. Have you got a clear picture of our holiday yet?
So back to two grandparents and three grandchildren – the children were fabulous; they weren’t an ounce of trouble. I would take them anywhere again. My partner I’m not so sure about.
We drove four long, hot days with no air conditioning in our hottest weather. I know what you’re thinking. I thought so too but..... It took us one day to drive through Washington, one day through Oregon and two days through California. It was not until we had almost reached Palm Springs before a little voice asked, “Are we almost there yet?” The first leg of our trip was over and we were welcomed at our destination with cold drinks and a refreshingly cool swimming pool. We weren’t crazy.
We spent two days in Palm Springs and then drove to Anaheim for four lovely, hot, fun-filled days of walking around Disneyland fighting the crowds. Some again might say we were crazy but it all depends how you look at it. If you love Space Mountain or the Hollywood Tower, I think you’re crazy. I’m not one of them but I did get conned by one of my sons who joined us there into going on Thunder Mountain. I should have been suspicious because last time we were there he told me Space Mountain wasn’t a roller coaster ride; it was only a ‘roller coaster-type ride’ and I fell for it. Uhmm.
From there we returned to Palm Springs late in the evening. As we drove up to my brother’s place – tired, hot and sticky – my partner misjudged the outside overhang of our motorhome and knocked their mailbox over. The cement base lay in crumbling little pieces on the ground while the children and I carefully stepped over it. I won’t say crazy but my husband spent two days rebuilding the cement base to its ‘almost back to original state' while the children and I enjoyed the swimming pool.
After a four day rest from Disneyland, we decided to set off for Arizona in 48 degree weather with, like I mentioned, no air conditioner. But like troopers we persevered because we had promised the children a visit to the Grand Canyon. Through deserts and over mountains we travelled until finally we stopped near a small town, hoping to find a campsite. The funny or not so funny thing was that once we stopped, the motorhome wouldn’t start again. I laughed. Really what else was there to do?
“It’s our lucky day,” I declared.
“How so?” my partner asked grumpily.
“Well, we could’ve broken down in the middle of nowhere.”
“We are in the middle of nowhere,” one grandson pointed out.
“But it’s not as ‘nowhere’ as it could’ve been,” I told him logically. “We’re very, very close to a campsite and to a town if need be,” I pointed out. Now who was crazy?
However, we did make it to the Grand Canyon and what an awesome sight that was! There is nothing to compare to it. But while we were leaving our campsite the following morning my partner failed to notice a tree stump and tore the corner out of our motorhome. It was the corner that housed the secondary battery that the fridge ran on while we were driving. Well what the heck - warm drinks, melted freezies and canned meals are better than nothing. One can’t quibble about the little things.
Then we stopped at Bryce Canyon in Utah – another unbelievable sight and one we were glad we had not missed. But when we arrived at our campsite that night and hooked up our water supply, we ended up with water all over the bathroom floor – a loose connection and not the appropriate tools to fix it with. So we used pots and kettles to bring water into the motorhome. It was just like camping in the ‘good old days’ only better because we didn’t have to sleep on the ground.
From there we travelled to Nevada where we stopped at Virginia City. Another great place to visit and one I’d like to go back to again when our motorhome is in a little better shape. When we went to our campsite, I asked my partner if he would like me to direct him while he backed up.
“No,” he said, “it’ll be fine.”
I shouldn’t have listened. I should have risked life and limb and jumped out of our moving RV because within minutes he had ‘somehow’ attached himself to a metal fence post. That wasn’t too bad though. The problem was when he tried to pull away and the bumper and part of the back wall of the motorhome came away also. Have you got a clear picture of our holiday yet?
So back to two grandparents and three grandchildren – the children were fabulous; they weren’t an ounce of trouble. I would take them anywhere again. My partner I’m not so sure about.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Our 'Griswold's Family Vacation' - Truth Not Fiction
Our ‘Griswold’s family vacation’ started out like any other normal vacation with two grandparents and three grandchildren about to embark on a three week trip. Some might say, “Three grandchildren; are you crazy?” Well there’s crazy and then there’s crazy.
We drove four long, hot days with no air conditioning in our hottest weather. I know what you’re thinking. I thought so too. It took us one day to drive through Washington, one day through Oregon and two days through California. It was not until we had almost reached Palm Springs before a little voice asked, “Are we almost there yet?” The first leg of our trip was over and we were welcomed at our destination with cold drinks and a refreshingly cool swimming pool. We weren’t crazy.
We spent two days in Palm Springs and then drove to Anaheim for four lovely, hot, fun-filled days of walking around Disneyland fighting the crowds. Some again might say we were crazy but it all depends how you look at it. If you love Space Mountain or the Hollywood Tower, you’re crazy. I’m not one of them but I did get conned by one of my sons who joined us there into going on Thunder Mountain. I should have been suspicious because last time we were there he told me Space Mountain wasn’t a roller coaster ride; it was only a ‘roller coaster-type ride’ and I fell for it. Uhmm.
From there we returned to Palm Springs late in the evening. As we drove up to my brother’s place – tired, hot and sticky – my husband misjudged the outside overhang of our motorhome and knocked their mailbox over. The cement base lay in crumbling little pieces on the ground while the children and I carefully stepped over it. I won’t say crazy but my husband spent two days rebuilding the cement base to its ‘almost’ original state while the children and I enjoyed the swimming pool.
After a four day rest from Disneyland, we decided to set off for Arizona in 48 degree weather with, like I mentioned, no air conditioner. But like troopers we persevered because we had promised the children a visit to the Grand Canyon. Through deserts and over mountains we travelled until finally we stopped near a small town, hoping to find a campsite. The funny or not so funny thing was that once we stopped, the motorhome wouldn’t start again. I laughed. Really what else was there to do?
“It’s our lucky day,” I declared.
“How so?” my husband asked grumpily.
“Well, we could’ve broken down in the middle of nowhere.”
“We are in the middle of nowhere,” one grandson pointed out.
“But it’s not as ‘nowhere’ as it could’ve been,” I told him logically. “We’re very, very close to a campsite.” Now who was crazy?
However, we did make it to the Grand Canyon and what an awesome sight that was! There is nothing to compare to it. But while we were leaving our campsite the following morning my husband failed to notice a tree stump and tore the corner out of our motorhome. It was the corner that housed the secondary battery that the fridge ran on while we were driving. Well what the heck - warm drinks, melted freezies and canned meals are better than nothing. One mustn’t quibble about the little things.
Then we stopped at Bryce Canyon in Utah – another unbelievable sight and one we were glad we had not missed. But when we arrived at our campsite that night and hooked up our water supply, we ended up with water all over the bathroom floor – a loose connection and not the appropriate tools to fix it with. So we used pots and kettles to bring water into the motorhome. It was just like camping in the ‘good old days’ only better because we didn’t have to sleep on the ground.
From there we travelled to Nevada where we stopped at Virginia City. Another great place to visit and one I’d like to go back to again when our motorhome is in a little better shape. When we went to our campsite, I asked my husband if he would like me to direct him while he backed up.
“No,” he said, “it’ll be fine.”
I shouldn’t have listened. I should have risked life and limb and jumped out of our moving RV because within minutes he had ‘somehow’ attached himself to a metal fence post. That wasn’t too bad though. The problem was when he tried to pull away and the bumper and part of the back wall of the motorhome came away also. Have you got a clear picture of our holiday yet?
So back to two grandparents and three grandchildren – the children were fabulous; they weren’t an ounce of trouble. I would take them anywhere again. The husband I’m not so sure about.
We drove four long, hot days with no air conditioning in our hottest weather. I know what you’re thinking. I thought so too. It took us one day to drive through Washington, one day through Oregon and two days through California. It was not until we had almost reached Palm Springs before a little voice asked, “Are we almost there yet?” The first leg of our trip was over and we were welcomed at our destination with cold drinks and a refreshingly cool swimming pool. We weren’t crazy.
We spent two days in Palm Springs and then drove to Anaheim for four lovely, hot, fun-filled days of walking around Disneyland fighting the crowds. Some again might say we were crazy but it all depends how you look at it. If you love Space Mountain or the Hollywood Tower, you’re crazy. I’m not one of them but I did get conned by one of my sons who joined us there into going on Thunder Mountain. I should have been suspicious because last time we were there he told me Space Mountain wasn’t a roller coaster ride; it was only a ‘roller coaster-type ride’ and I fell for it. Uhmm.
From there we returned to Palm Springs late in the evening. As we drove up to my brother’s place – tired, hot and sticky – my husband misjudged the outside overhang of our motorhome and knocked their mailbox over. The cement base lay in crumbling little pieces on the ground while the children and I carefully stepped over it. I won’t say crazy but my husband spent two days rebuilding the cement base to its ‘almost’ original state while the children and I enjoyed the swimming pool.
After a four day rest from Disneyland, we decided to set off for Arizona in 48 degree weather with, like I mentioned, no air conditioner. But like troopers we persevered because we had promised the children a visit to the Grand Canyon. Through deserts and over mountains we travelled until finally we stopped near a small town, hoping to find a campsite. The funny or not so funny thing was that once we stopped, the motorhome wouldn’t start again. I laughed. Really what else was there to do?
“It’s our lucky day,” I declared.
“How so?” my husband asked grumpily.
“Well, we could’ve broken down in the middle of nowhere.”
“We are in the middle of nowhere,” one grandson pointed out.
“But it’s not as ‘nowhere’ as it could’ve been,” I told him logically. “We’re very, very close to a campsite.” Now who was crazy?
However, we did make it to the Grand Canyon and what an awesome sight that was! There is nothing to compare to it. But while we were leaving our campsite the following morning my husband failed to notice a tree stump and tore the corner out of our motorhome. It was the corner that housed the secondary battery that the fridge ran on while we were driving. Well what the heck - warm drinks, melted freezies and canned meals are better than nothing. One mustn’t quibble about the little things.
Then we stopped at Bryce Canyon in Utah – another unbelievable sight and one we were glad we had not missed. But when we arrived at our campsite that night and hooked up our water supply, we ended up with water all over the bathroom floor – a loose connection and not the appropriate tools to fix it with. So we used pots and kettles to bring water into the motorhome. It was just like camping in the ‘good old days’ only better because we didn’t have to sleep on the ground.
From there we travelled to Nevada where we stopped at Virginia City. Another great place to visit and one I’d like to go back to again when our motorhome is in a little better shape. When we went to our campsite, I asked my husband if he would like me to direct him while he backed up.
“No,” he said, “it’ll be fine.”
I shouldn’t have listened. I should have risked life and limb and jumped out of our moving RV because within minutes he had ‘somehow’ attached himself to a metal fence post. That wasn’t too bad though. The problem was when he tried to pull away and the bumper and part of the back wall of the motorhome came away also. Have you got a clear picture of our holiday yet?
So back to two grandparents and three grandchildren – the children were fabulous; they weren’t an ounce of trouble. I would take them anywhere again. The husband I’m not so sure about.
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